Handbags To Have And To Hold

The rule: brides do not carry handbags. The dilemma: what to do with your lipstick and compact. The solution: something small, something pretty, something practical.

From a fashion viewpoint, there is no such thing as a "bridal handbag." Instead, top bridal shops carry what is called a "table bag," meaning it stays on the bride's table, and is carried up and back to the ladies' room only. Many locales include a bridal room; if yours does, this is where your bag belongs. Something understated, elegant, and refined will work. Stay with white or ivory, rhinestones seem a bit glitzy. Keep in mind the focal point is your gown. You absolutely do not want anyone's attention on anything other than that exquisite creation.

The perfect choice becomes a little envelope or pouch in the fabric of your dress. A small matte gold, silver, or mother-of-pearl evening clutch seems right too. Another option is a pearl pyramid-shaped bag, with a silk cord handle. These bags are not costly.

 Conversely, this is definitely the area for both bridesmaids and mothers of the bride to go all out. Again, members of the bridal party never carry handbags down the aisle. As a result, at the reception, a beautiful bag is a wonderful way to make your outfit your own.

 For mothers of the bride or groom in particular, this may be the optimum occasion to treat yourself to that handbag you've always wanted. A dear friend of mine eyed a costly evening bag for quite some time, but always felt it was too extravagant. Her son's wedding provided the perfect occasion for such a splurge. She completely enjoyed carrying it that evening, and now revels in the delicious memories as she continues to enjoy her luxurious indulgence again and again.


 This season, fashion makes it easier than ever to create that special feeling. Gorgeous embellished, embroidered, encrusted handbags are everywhere. Dressy. Colorful. Textured. Fun. Fabulous. So beautiful, they look like art. No need to feel guilty if you go a bit overboard. After the wedding, you'll carry it everywhere with everything. The more outstanding, the more it goes with.





 Of course, some of the best bags come from top designers. Do not fret. Hard-to-tell copies come in every style, at every price point. Be creative. Trust me, you've never had so much fun shopping. What's more, you cannot have a bad time carrying something this gorgeous. Think stunning. Think smashing. Think cool. Think hip. Think how you'll enjoy every compliment.

 Handbags. Understated and elegant to splendid and luxurious. Happy shopping! Relish every magnificent minute.